Many people choose to view an intervention as a way to show their love for a person. If you know someone who refuses to seek help for an addiction, it might be time to stage an intervention.
In many situations, an intervention is the only way to show a loved one they need help. However, interventions can go wrong and cause a loved one to feel threatened and alone. It’s not uncommon for drug users to feel isolated.
If you plan and execute an intervention incorrectly, it will make your loved one feel even more alone. Fortunately, there are several tips that you can use to get better results from the intervention.
Choose the Right Time
When it comes to planning and executing an intervention, timing is everything. The intervention should never take place when your loved one is under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
These substances cause impairment and can make it nearly impossible for your loved one to think clearly. If you don’t get the timing right, it can lead to a nasty, ineffective intervention. In some cases, bad timing could even result in violence.
Impairment can cause or make it nearly impossible for your loved one to concentrate or focus. For the best results, an intervention should always take place when the subject is sober and in control.
Create an Effective Team
One of the purposes of an intervention is communication between an addict and loved ones. People who know and love the addicted person should be able to speak and persuade him or her to seek treatment.
Every person who is chosen to participate in the intervention must be chosen wisely. Each individual should have a meaningful relationship with the addicted person. For the best results, it’s best to only choose people who’re close to the person.
It’s especially important to exclude people who have a bad relationship with the person. Since the purpose of an intervention is to talk, motivate and encourage the person to seek treatment, only close friends and family members should be involved.
Close friends, siblings, parents, spouses and addiction specialists should be chosen for the intervention. A lot of families choose to add an interventionist to their team, which can produce favorable results. The interventionist is equipped with specialized skills, which can make the process run much more smoothly.
The Right Body Language
When executing an intervention, it’s important to use warm, open body language. The words contained in an intervention script are important, but the delivery of the words is just as important.
If the wrong body language is used, the addicted person might feel threatened and react unfavorably. The right body language consists of leaning in for emphasis, shoulder tilting towards the person and ensuring hands remain unclenched. Steady eye contact and keeping legs and arms uncrossed are also important body language cues.
Make a Backup Plan
Not all interventions end with favorable results, so it’s important to have a backup plan. There is no way to know how an addicted loved one will respond to an intervention.
They might say mean things, cry uncontrollably, scream, yell or leave the room. Your family should have a backup plan that can be executed if the intervention doesn’t go smoothly. If you or someone you know has an addiction, call our hotline at 800-447-9081.